The Impact of Spiritual Exploitation in Kashmir
By Fiza Khan
When life becomes overwhelming in Kashmir, many turn to spiritual figures known as pirs for guidance. These individuals are sought out for advice and comfort during times of family struggles, heartbreak, or personal challenges.
Faith has always been a driving force in the valley, offering direction, hope, and community connection. While many pirs genuinely help their followers by encouraging ethical living, some exploit the unquestioning trust placed in them, leading to devastating consequences.
Victims of exploitation often find themselves manipulated under the guise of spiritual healing, with acts such as sharing private content or spending nights under false claims of spiritual necessity eroding personal boundaries without their realization.
Exploitation typically begins with trust and emotional dependence, and secrecy plays a crucial role in perpetuating manipulation. Victims may be instructed to keep their interactions with the pir private, isolating them from their support networks and amplifying their vulnerability.
Unfortunately, cultural reverence for religious figures can sometimes blind families to warning signs of abuse, allowing harmful practices to persist unchecked.
Discussing emotional, psychological, or sexual exploitation remains challenging in conservative communities, with social stigma often silencing victims and prioritizing reputation over protection.
Modern communication channels have introduced new risks, as private messages and social media interactions can facilitate manipulation without public scrutiny. Young individuals facing personal struggles may fall prey to constant reassurances or promises of guidance, leading to cycles of fear, blackmail, and psychological harm.
The long-term effects of exploitation include anxiety, depression, guilt, and a loss of self-confidence. Victims may carry trauma for years without seeking help due to fear of judgment or blame from family, authorities, or mental health professionals.
True faith, based on moral conduct, patience, and respect for others, should not instill fear, secrecy, or discomfort. Devotion should connect individuals to a higher power rather than empower unchecked authority.
Communities must engage in open conversations about personal boundaries, emotional well-being, and safe guidance to help young people recognize manipulation. Religious education should incorporate critical thinking alongside moral teachings to empower individuals to question harmful practices.
Legal awareness is crucial, as demanding or sharing intimate content without consent is a crime under Indian law. Information campaigns, workshops, and community discussions can provide practical knowledge and empower individuals to seek help.
While faith has traditionally provided strength in Kashmir, it should not demand silence, fear, or a loss of personal agency. Spirituality should inspire and guide, rather than control or harm. Increasing awareness, fostering dialogue, and encouraging the questioning of harmful practices can ensure that spiritual systems remain sources of guidance and healing, free from exploitation.
— The author is a law student and can be reached at [email protected]. Views expressed in this article are the author’s own.
Pullout: Faith has long offered strength in Kashmir, but it must not demand silence, fear, or loss of personal agency. Spirituality should inspire and guide, rather than control or harm. Increasing awareness, fostering dialogue, and encouraging the questioning of harmful practices can ensure that spiritual systems remain sources of guidance and healing, free from exploitation.
